Men do fantasize themselves being in bed with some very hot and sexy girl who can seduce him to a greater extent and leaves him wanting more of the thing from her at adult sex date nights. Find out what do men really wish and think that their girl should be in bed with them.
Find out what exactly dating men in their 20s and 30s want from their sexy women. Sexually. Specifically, what exactly do men want in bed, what do women not do enough of, and what do women think feels good for guys that guys don’t particularly enjoy?
Here are the short answers: blow jobs, blow jobs and cuddling. Next story, please….
Before you think I’m kidding about, let me assure you that virtually every man I spoke to not only agreed with this answer but usually pre-empted it (almost word for word on occasion).
Everyone mentioned oral sex at some point, while ‘cuddling’ and ‘post-coital banter’ also frequently came up. In time, other points also arose and once I’d filtered out the sheer unfeasible male fantasies – daily threesomes and so on – some common themes began to emerge.
Note: these pointers apply to sex in a relationship of some kind. I wouldn’t advise issuing blow jobs to every guy you meet….
Getting Started
What Adult Men Want From Sexy Women In Sex Dates Nights!
First things first. Men love sex – we all know this – but men want you to love having sex too. After all, if we do have one insecurity it’s a concern about our sexual prowess and whether or not we satisfy you, so make sure your man knows that he blows your mind. You don’t need to reassure him every day, but throw it in there occasionally, as he’s going down on you, in an SMS out of the blue, after you’ve just shagged each other’s brains out.
And show him. Traditionally men looking for horny matches with there sexy women partner. It’s an extension of our hunter role and we’re cool with that most of the time but nothing makes a guy happier than your unexpected hand down his pants or a soft word in his ear as you tell him how much you’ve been aching for him all day. Whether it’s initiating sex days in advance (‘I’m dying for a dirty weekend away) or before you get up in the morning (he won’t mind if you wake him, really), he’ll be a happier guy for it.
A word of warning: avoid promising adult sex date and then not following through. Your man may be forgetful at times but when it comes to scheduled booty appointments he’s got the memory of an elephant. A randy elephant!
Getting Down
Toys, oils, mutual masturbation, masturbating while he watches, dirty talk of varying levels…. Obviously it’s different strokes for different strokes (as it were) but these are all common foreplay (and sex) requests. Interestingly, there were no complaints about spending too much time on foreplay. Guys are like sexy women in this respect: they like to mix up longer and shorter sex dates sessions with the odd quickie here and there – just as long as you remember that we, being guys, are penis focused, which is to say that your man can handle an hour of foreplay just fine as long as you acknowledge his penis at regular intervals.
Touching, stroking, caressing, licking – the options to spice up your massage or tickle or striptease are numerous. Even let him enter you briefly before carrying on with what you were doing. As long as you keep returning to his penis you can tease him all night – and he’ll be sure to return the favor.
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